Rituals For Virtual Meetings
A practical book on improving remote work culture

The inspiration for Rituals for Virtual Meetings came from a pressing need during the rapid shift to remote work in 2020. As workplaces transitioned to virtual environments, many teams struggled to maintain a sense of connection, engagement, and productivity. While the work medium had changed, the need for meaningful rituals to structure and enhance collaboration remained critical. This realization prompted us to write a book that would guide individuals and teams navigating the complexities of virtual workspaces.
The Book concept
Rituals for Virtual Meetings explores how rituals can be adapted or designed specifically for virtual settings. The central premise is that rituals provide structure, meaning, and opportunities for human connection, even in a virtual context. By intentionally embedding rituals into virtual meetings, teams can combat common challenges like Zoom fatigue, disengagement, and lack of alignment. The book empowers readers to design rituals that foster collaboration, creativity, and inclusivity, regardless of team member's location.
Key Areas Covered in the Book
The book is structured around the following key areas:
- Rituals for Beginning and Ending a Meeting with Engagement: These rituals set the tone for virtual meetings by creating a sense of purpose and connection, while providing closure and clarity at the end.
- Rituals for Focus, Engagement, and Flow: Practical approaches to sustain attention, improve collaboration, and foster meaningful participation throughout the meeting.
- Rituals for Resilience and Rejuvenation: Techniques to help teams recharge and maintain energy during long or frequent virtual meetings.
- Rituals for Creating Connection and Building Relationships: Strategies for fostering trust, empathy, and collaboration within remote teams.
- Rituals for Transitions and Shifting Culture: Rituals are designed to help individuals and teams navigate changes, such as onboarding, project handoffs, or adapting to hybrid work.
Examples from the Book
The book provides actionable examples tailored to virtual meetings, drawing from various rituals:
- Hi By Name: Begin meetings by greeting each participant by name to foster personal connections.
- Guided Breathing: Start with a moment of collective breathing to help participants center themselves and sync as a team.
- Perspective Pause: Include a structured moment where participants are encouraged to reflect on and articulate alternative viewpoints.
- Curiosity Timeout: Pause the meeting to explore a wandering thought or question that could lead to creative problem-solving.
- Parting A-ha: Conclude meetings by having participants share their key takeaways or insights from the discussion.
- PDA (Public Display of Appreciation): End the meeting with an opportunity for participants to express gratitude for each other's contributions.
- The Optimist Mirror: Use moments to reflect positive observations about group dynamics or the team's progress.
- Virtual Etiquette Guide: Reinforce best practices for respectful and effective communication in virtual spaces.
Featured Articles and Recognition
Rituals for Virtual Meetings has been featured in prominent publications such as Fast Company. These articles emphasized its relevance for remote and hybrid teams, highlighting its insights on combating Zoom fatigue and fostering meaningful interactions. The Fast Company showcased its innovative approaches to building engagement in remote settings.